What makes a real man?

Its not every day that I am in this mood. This mood makes me realize what this life has given me and what I am giving back in return. This mood doesn't let my words get influenced by my parents, sisters and friends. This mood makes me speak truth.

Every true man, once in his life time should have wondered what composes a real man and I consider this as my beginning.

I have thought in every imaginative way I could think but still I feel I am far way from the answer. When one thing in your life changes every thing and brings shadow on every thing else that you have done, it is really hard to get your mind work the way you want.

Once in my life I have been a very successful man, so much that I have thought I wouldn't need any thing more. That was long time ago. Right now? its kind of very difficult. So much that I have no words to describe it.

I am just 27 years old, and already success and failure in my life has been so distinct that it could stretch any man so wide apart, to the extent of killing. And yet I have survived the initial impact. Of course the side effect is making me an immoral. So the question of the hour, does this dynamic nature of man to observe all happiness and equally all sadness and still move ahead in life makes him a true man?

I guess, it is not what is inside me but it is what I do that defines me!


Subho Deep Ghosh